We all get pissed off every now and again.  Any healthy relationship will have a couple of fights here and there, but when you are fighting, there are a few things you really should never say to a man when you're arguing with your boyfriend.

Arguing with Boyfriend Blunder #1 – Telling Him That you are Pregnant

Some women may think that telling a guy that a little bundle of joy is on the way is going to get him to stick with her.  Don't even think of trying this.  Maybe having a little rug rat is enough to make a woman's heart swoon with delight, but if you and your boyfriend aren't precisely on the best terms, this is not going to help with things.

For starters, you boyfriend is going to feel like you're trapping him in a position he doesn't want to be in.  If he's pissed off at you, the last thing on earth he is going to desire is to feel trapped with someone that pisses him off.

If it is true that you are pregnant, your boyfriend will immediately feel scared and probably try to convince you that having an abortion is the best plan of action.  Don't believe TV.  I know that a lot of Television shows like to make men look like total idiots, but most men are smart enough to know that a child isn't going to miraculously make a bad relationship into a good one.

If you just made up the whole story, that isn't good either.  He'll find out eventually.  Is it really going to make things better if he thinks you're liar and manipulator in addition to all the other problems going on?

Arguing with Boyfriend Blunder #2 – Letting Him Know You Cheated

Maybe you're pissed and you would like to tell him about that time you and his best friend got drunk and one thing led to another...  I'm sure we've all been there at some point.  But how is this going to achieve anything?  If you tell this to a man, he'll feel really dumb and stupid for ever trusting a woman like you that sleeps around.

You heard me.  Even though you're just trying to make him feel like a total chump, you're just telling him that you have no morals and you want to sleep around.  Now, I'm going out on a limb here and I'm guessing that this isn't exactly the kind of name you're wanting for yourself.

Arguing with Boyfriend Blunder #3 – Telling Him He Doesn't Measure Up

This is definitely something you really don't want to point out.  Odds are good that you'll hit him where it hurts.  However, you'll just be cutting yourself down simultaneously.

This will only make you look very superficial like all that you care about is size.  All you'll be doing is making yourself look like the female version of a construction worker that hollers at every woman in a pretty dress that walks by (no offense to any construction workers out there).  This isn't how a classy woman acts.

These three blunders are things that women seem to do on a regular basis despite the fact that they only end up backfiring on them.  Trust me, I understand how difficult it can be in the heat of the moment to stay cool, but you must make sure that you act like a sophisticated and stylish woman.  It may be easier to try to humiliate your boyfriend, but it’s vital not to pull yourself down simultaneously.

Plus, the more dumb things you say, the more damage you’re going to need to deal with if you want to save your relationship.  I know it’s difficult to do so in the heat of the moment, but you need to keep a long-term view when you're arguing with your boyfriend.  Ask yourself “is this something I’m going to regret saying later?” before you blurt it out.